When I think about goals any more, I go to prayer. For instance, I want to live a healthier
lifestyle. However, what keeps me from healthier
choices is often a deeper issue; this issue is what I need to focus my goal
around. So then I have to think about
how do I determine if I am making progress in my goal. What determines success? A goal without specific objectives is
unobtainable.
For me, my goal is to be okay with being “messy”. It is okay to make mistakes and not have
everything under control. In fact, a
person who always seems to have it all together can often be intimidating and unapproachable. I can’t always meet the needs of my family. I may be tired, late, cranky, and discouraged. I can be frustrated that my schedule has been
interrupted yet again. I can get into the
comparison game and we all know that trap: we either tear others down or
ourselves down and neither option is healthy. I can stress about finances, work,
kids, college costs, future weddings, and retirement; all a part of life. Trying to do them perfectly – stress. Thus, my true goal is to let go and let God
be in control. This journey is ongoing, needs people in my life that I can
truly be honest with, who hold me accountable to His Word, and who help me see
challenges through His perspective on this journey. Easy? No!
But struggling does not mean failure.
I must reset my perspective, forgive myself, and trust God.
The question is how I work on my goal and has many facets:
· Find someone who helps see me where I am
struggling and helps me determine my goal, walk the journey with me, and pray
for me.
· Spend regular time with the Lord and listen for
His voice in everyday moments. That
means I have to take time to be still mentally and actually want to hear
Him.
· Bible study with a small group. Then I am both challenged and encouraged by
the wisdom of others.
· Books – I love to read. Find a few authors who can speak wisdom into
my life in my journey
· Get more sleep.
My schedule gets a little demanding at times. Yet, when I am rested I am
better able to respond vs. react to the ‘unexpected’.
As
a Mentoree you get to determine ‘what is your goal’ for the year. As you prepare to meet with your Mentor, set
aside some quiet time to jot a few things down.
When you meet with your Mentor, ask for prayer and wisdom in the
determining of your goal. Let your
Mentor know if your goal changes or if you are not feeling your goal is being
met. Finally, remember that to grow in
this process you will need to get a little messy and let go of some control; only
then can God truly help you on your journey.
A short video on our mentoring website may help you in this
process. Click here to watch about
S.M.A.R.T. Goals.
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